![]() I left behind all my friends and a quite comfortable life to move to a country whose language I don't even spoke at that time, just because he was doing his PHD here. We live in Europe, and we moved to a foreign country together. I spend every second weekend, hiking in the mountains, partaking in his hobbies because I know it makes him happy, but he cannot spend 2-3 hours with me either inside or in the cinema to just watch a stupid movie. I had to go to the movies alone sometimes, when the new Marvel movies came out. To this day, he refuses to watch any sci-fi or fantasy movies because that's just not his thing. But at the same time he made absolutely no attempts to try and understand my hobbies. Although sometimes our differences are hard to endure, I love that he pushes me out of my comfort zone from time to me, I got see so many beautiful landmarks across Europe because of him. He only gets energy from being outside, exploring nature, and meeting new people. I also play computer games, write snippets, all the boring, indoor stuff. Sometimes I just need to be left alone, no friends, no colleagues, no family. He realized he wants to see the world, and we just might not be compatible. I always had these boring goals in life such as get married, have a nice house, have kids. He is 27, so slightly younger, and we all remember how weird the 25-30 period can be, when you transition into an "more adult" version of you. I am 31, so let's say that I am still pretty young, and have a lot ahead of me. he is not 100% sure that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.įirst, I appreciated his honesty, but I was dumbstruck. We've made plans, have not announced anything yet before we have something concrete, but one day I was showing wedding dance videos to my partner, and that is when he told me that actually. We've been together for 7 years now, and finally decided to go into engagement & marriage territory, but we are doing it in a transparent manner, no surprise engagements, we plan everything together. Keeping conversations productive and friendly is what gives you the freedom to know if you have a question, the responses you get will be productive and friendly. Report the comment or post and the moderators will review and take appropriate steps. If you think someone is trolling, don't feed them. ![]() Unless you have a specific reason, try to give people the benefit of the doubt. If you're posting about sex, keep the title safe for work and save the gory details for the description. Help make the page something nice to look at and something a guy could read at his job. Just remember to take people's replies for what they are: someone else's opinion. Avoid rants and only post if you really want honest discussion with the community here. At this point in life, we should know what topics are emotionally charged and posts about them should be worded with care. Handle thorny issues and controversial topics with maturity and kindness. Keep in mind that this is a forum for guys over 30 so the questions and comments should be interesting and relevant to them. Talk about things that will be interesting for others as well as yourself. ![]() Treat this space as if you're having drinks with potential friends. This rule is not meant to dissuade discussions about depression. ![]() International resources can be found here - and on /r/SuicideWatch/. In the US, please do not hesitate for a moment to call 1-80 (National Suicide Prevention Hotline). No threats of self-harm or suicide If you are in crisis right now, there are professionals all over the world who are equipped to help you better than this this community is able. This includes homo/trans/etc.-phobic or sexist remarks. Posts that are immature in tone or make a sweeping, negative generalization about gay men or the "gay community" may be removed. If you want to be a grump, head to a different sub.īe thoughtful. Name calling or hostility aren't welcome. Posts should be honest questions that welcome genuine input from others.īe civil. Overly sarcastic or insincere posts may be removed. ![]() Younger men are completely welcome to fully participate as long as you're on board for keeping the discussion enjoyable to the 30+ crowd. AskGaybrosOver30 is a place for supportive and friendly conversations between over 30 adults. ![]()
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